How to Turn Your Mediocre Life into a Magical Life
Let’s face it, sometimes life can be a bag of sh*t, and sometimes it can be gold. But what if I told you that within that bag of sh*t lies your gold?
Today I want to help you understand how to turn the mediocre into magic. If you are unsatisfied in any area of your life right now, would you say it was mediocre? Are you over living a mediocre life like the rest of the world seems to? Well, let's turn it into magic. (Click here to understand how you feel about your life on a deeper level.)
Turning sh*t into gold, or mediocre into magic all begins with acceptance. Acceptance for exactly where you are. Loving who you are deeply and completely. Understanding that every moment in your life, has led you to where you are now and you have tried your best with what you have, haven’t you?
It's time to read between the lines. When you’re creating a magical life two keys are awareness and gratitude.
Awareness of the stories and patterns that are playing out in your life, why you continue to create mediocre. Awareness for the emotions that these patterns keep bringing up in your life. What do you need to look at that you are avoiding? Because whatever that is, within that lies your gold.
And gratitude because within the lines there are so many moments and experiences to be grateful for. They may not seem obvious at first, but these are your magic moments. They can be gifts and blessings or disguised as lessons.
A blessing can be as small as a butterfly fluttering past you on a beautiful sunny day, watching your cat trying to catch it. It can be as purchasing your first Chanel handbag.
A magic moment can also be a serious health scare. The moment that a diagnosis turns your life upside down. This can be a magic moment because it shows you that change is on the way, to get you in touch with your magical future. It can be a break up. A ‘failed business’. All of these moments can be magic if you let them.
It’s important to note that I don’t mean bypassing the emotions you feel and going straight to ‘what a blessing’ while ignoring the knot in your stomach. I mean showing up with full acceptance for what you’re experiencing, feeling every emotion, meeting yourself with love & compassion and eventually you will naturally come to ‘what a magic moment that was, thank goodness for that lesson.’
Now, this is exactly why most people's lives remain mediocre, because they don’t see the magic moments. They don’t read between the lines. They simply focus on the sh*t, calling in more mediocre.
And here is where the magic really begins to happen… when you become a seeker of magic, you become a seeker of truth and your energetic frequency starts to send out transmissions of magic. Because your body is electromagnetic and your mind is creating your reality (it’s science, look it up) you will begin to call in more and more magic moments. Then the beautiful effect of compounding means your life will, over time and with single pointed focus, become more magical. And voila, you have turned your mediocre life into a magical one.
Important: this does not mean it will feel rosy all the time. You will still have to do hard things and you will still cry. But wouldn’t you say that part of the wonder of being human is the vast array of experiences we get to experience and the vast array of emotions that come with it?
I know you love to cry at a rom-com. I know secretly you love expressing your anger. Please know, from my heart to yours, that all emotions are totally okay and no emotion is good or bad. Allow yourself to feel them all.
A client of mine who was suffering from depression told me that one of the worst parts for her, of being on antidepressants was that she couldn’t feel anything, and that sometimes she would actually prefer to feel the highs and the lows rather than numbing herself. We’re human, emotions are a blessing, even if sometimes they’re uncomfortable.
The trick to not getting stuck in the lows is to remain in awareness, being the observer of what is going on around you and within your mind. Allowing yourself to be human and feel everything. And then, once the emotion has passed through your being, declaring your openness to magic, and discovering your next magic moment.
Life then becomes a beautiful scavenger hunt of magical moments, sounds fun doesn’t it?
If you are working towards a magical life, and perhaps you’re calling in a goal, wish or dream you have, then join me and a group of like minded individuals for a super-fun night of Magic & Mischief.
I am hosting a masterclass that goes deeper into manifesting your desires than you have been before. Take a trip into your subconscious mind and see your goal through flawless vision. By the end of the call you will know exactly what is holding you back and how to overcome it, your vision will be so clear it can’t not manifest and you will know your clear next steps of inspired action. This class will give you practical tools that you can use again and again to help you see your magical life manifest. Allowing magic to be your guide, and mischief to be your secret.
You can learn more & sign up through the link below, I look forward to creating magic with you.