Your Purpose is YOU
Have you been searching for your purpose but it’s left you feeling lost and overwhelmed?
So many women come to me looking for their purpose. They feel like a ‘lost soul’ they say, wandering around without aim. And I GET it. This is once where I was, wandering around chasing Western culture’s version of success.
Fancy apartment in London. Private members clubs. Champagne. Designer handbags. Man in finance. Philanthropy. I ‘had it all’ but while I was apparently happy and successful on the outside, I was living with a lack mentality and chronic stress.
I was wandering around doing the things, totally disconnected from the truth of what I actually wanted. Which was a connection to myself.
At the time I had a grand vision of what I wanted to see happen in my life and how I wanted to help the world. I thought being a fine jewellery designer and living an opulent lifestyle was ‘my purpose’ so I could help my mum retire and travel the world saving people. It came from a good place, but not the right place.
Then I received the ‘call for adventure’ (a rare cancer diagnosis) and my Hero’s Journey began. I had to let my life fall to the ground to give my soul what she was crying for, to live my life of dharma and find my true purpose. I haven’t looked back since as I am truly the happiest and healthiest I have ever been, maintaining this is my purpose. Going deeper into my Self is my purpose. It’s all for greater good, but my main focus is me. And your main focus should be you.
What is your purpose?
We can all create a purpose and believe our purpose has to be to ‘save humanity’ or else it’s not worthy (as it often is with the women who come to me for help.) But I want to call BS on that!
Until you are at peace within yourself your main purpose is YOU. Your health. Your wellbeing. Your passion. Your needs. Your bliss. Your peace.
Your main journey as a soul here in this lifetime, in this space and time is to discover who you are. It isn’t to help the ‘awakening’ or ‘end world hunger.’ You can absolutely help do this should when you feel called to but, your only responsibility is your own evolution and aligning with your True Self.
Once you have done that, or are at least on the path (by answering the call on your Hero’s Journey) then the rest will fall into place. Just through your desire and action towards living a life where you fully care for and Know Thyself, will help humanity.
So please take the pressure off trying to find your ‘purpose.’ Look into what lights you up in ALL aspects of your life and begin to bring your mind, body and spirit into alignment.
Then you become a channel for dharma and a higher purpose will be shown to you. For now, be where you are and focus on your soul alignment and discovering your North Star. Find your own cup and fill it first!
I have created a really handy workbook to help you fill your cup, bring your life into alignment with your North Star. This special ‘discovery kit’ helps you to make positive change in your life immediately, reclaim your power and move towards your purpose (you) with full confidence in your path.
Take the load off and find your peace not your purpose. 😀
Roseanna xx